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Talking About Sex Toys and How to Play with It

22 Aug

Even before liberation in late 1800 and early 1900, sex toys have been used earlier years before that. In fact, the earliest known dildo was discovered at the Hohle Fels Cave in Germany, which was found to date back within Paleolithic era. Plus, there have been several records that there are countries, even as early as 28,000 BC, were using sex toys too – however, discretely.

Even in this modern age, using sex toys during sex and for personal sexual pleasure seems still taboo for many; that is, despite the several medical research concluding that sex toys have several benefits for both men and women who are either sexually active and not. Here are a few benefits of using sex toys during sex and for personal pleasure:

  • It enhances sexual pleasure.
  • It increases orgasm, especially on women – this allows them to achieve G-spot orgasm, which is known as strong sexual arousal and powerful orgasm.
  • It helps boost sexual performance.
  • It helps improve intimacy and even relationship.
  • It helps you and your partner to keep up exciting sex.

The introduction of sex toys can be embarrassing for some partners, especially if it is their first night together. If you are new to sex toys for women and men, you should learn how to play with it either to oneself or to your partner during sex or being sexually aroused while being alone; to get the best orgasm. Here are a few tips from sexperts that you can use to have extremely unforgettable sex with your partner:

#1: Know the toy

Don’t get too excited; before using the toy make sure that you know something about it. One of the best examples is a dildo – a common sex toy, even before modern times. It is usually shaped like a penis, which is most perfectly designed for vaginal and anal penetration. In several occasions the dildo doesn’t look exactly like the real penis; it comes in a different size, shape, style, and even the texture, giving you a new flavor during sex.

Dildos are one of the best stimulants, if you want to make your partner scream for more, you have to play with it like you are stimulating your partner’s arousal. For vaginal penetration and to make your partner reach G-spot orgasm, you have to tease the woman’s clit using the dildo and then slowly penetrate the toy into her vagina but not the entire toy – slowly, gently, and then gradually until she screams for your name.

#2: Don’t force

The best way to enjoy a sex toy is to use it with consent.

Make your partner want it and do not force it or else all your efforts to have an exciting, screaming, and the best sex will go to waste. If you want to use the toy, tease your partner with it until she or he agrees to use it on him or her.

Final Thoughts

Sex toys should add flavor to your sex life. If you want to use it and it is your first time to do so, do not hesitate to read reliable posts like this. Also, do not forget to buy the right sex toy for you and your partner to enjoy – you can find them at Simpli Pleasure’s website.

The Health Benefits of Sex Toys for Men

28 Dec

The topic of sex toys and their use has become less taboo in the last few years, whether we’re talking about sex toys for women or for men. This is great, as this shows that people are finally beginning to understand the importance of the role played by the intimate part in the life of any healthy adult and they are also beginning to understand that sex life can make or break a relationship. In addition to all these, sex toys can bring health benefits that you wouldn’t have thought about. If you are interested in learning more about the health benefits associated with, for example, men’s sex toys, we are more than happy to share some details. All you have to do is to check out the article below and nothing more.

Benefits of masturbation sleeves

Masturbation sleeves have gained a lot of popularity in the last few years and while a lot of men use them just because they’re fun, others have discovered the health benefits associated with their regular use. Did you know that the regular stimulation associated with the use of a masturbation sleeve can help men suffering from erectile dysfunction? Also, if tighter strokes are used, this can help men train stamina and endurance. This can only be good, right? Better endurance means better sex with a real partner and thus a much improved sex life which is also going to improve the relationship. Another health benefit that comes with the use of male solo play is that even a short session can be compared with a good cardio exercise; if you do the exercise more fun with the help of a masturbation sleeve, then it is even better. This means that you’ll be doing two things at the same time: physical exercise, which is good for the whole body and you’ll enjoy yourself as well. Overall, the use of a masturbation sleeve will make you a better partner, which means that your intimate life will be much improved.

Benefits of P-spot vibrators-

Even though these sex toys for men are not extremely popular yet, those who tried them are simply pleased with the choice. If you haven’t tried a P-spot vibrator yet, you should seriously think about it because this is a sex toy which improves the fresh blood flow into the pelvic region and it promotes the production of healthy semen. If you are struggling to get pregnant, this can prove to be very useful. Another health benefit associated with the use of a P-spot vibrator is that it brings back normal erectile function and it can reduce the risk of prostate cancer.

Benefits of vacuum pumps

The health benefits associated with vacuum pumps are regain of size and also the regain of the ability to achieve an erection after suffering prostate surgery. This is also a sex toy which will help men struggling with erectile dysfunction.

As you can see, using sex toys is really a good idea. You should give them a try, as I know that you’ll quickly see the benefits.

What You Need to Know about Dating

30 Nov

If you haven’t entered the world of dating just yet but you are about to, please prepare for a ride that is going to be fun, annoying, scary, sad, happy nerve wracking and frustrating. The process is a roller coaster that you will love or hate, depending on the situation but as long as you play it smart, you have the chance to love it more than you hate it. There are a few things that you should know about dating before you really get a taste of this world and we would like to share those with you. Check them out and we know that things will turn out to be just great.

1. Set standards, but not too high. Don’t be overly picky. Of course that you deserve the best but the dream guy in your head might not exist in reality. If you set standards that cannot be reached in reality, then you will only experience disappointments.

2. The dream guy might not be in your favorite coffee shop. Of course that the perfect scenario for finding Mr. Right is to meet him in a coffee shop. Well, he might be at the supermarket or at the laundry shop, doing his laundry, just like a typical Mr. Right would do when he’s not in coffee shops. It is all right to be romantic but things might not happen the way you dream them to. Of course, there is a possibility for this to turn out exactly how you pictured it but also consider other options.

3. Learn when to say ‘’I Love You’’. There is a time that is just right for saying the three magic words and if you say them too early, you might scare him, no matter how much he likes you. Learn that sometimes, ‘’I love you’’ can also break a relationship instead of making it.

4. Google someone before you date him. You can’t imagine how much precious information Google can hide, so take advantage of this to the fullest. You might not even want to go on that first date after reading the information that Google will share.

5. Some exes will deserve your friendship, others won’t. Learn how to make the difference because it will save you from a lot of unpleasant situations.

6. Bad breakups will be hard for a while but they will help you become a better, stronger person. You just have to get the learning curve from each of these bad breakups.

7. Don’t open your heart from the very first date. You don’t yet know to whom you are doing this, so it is best to protect yourself. Yes, the person might deserve you opening up but he might be a douche. Figure that out before you start putting your life on the wall.

Dating can be hard but it will also be fun and exciting. Of course, you need just a bit of luck in order to avoid bad experience but if they happen, take them as teaching lessons and nothing more.

Relationship Goals You Should Experience

30 Nov

Relationships. Can’t do with them, can’t do without them. We all have them and we all realized how hard they are. However, given their beauty, they are worth the risk and the effort. If you’re quite new to relationships and still learning, this article will teach you a bit more about the goals and the stages that any relationship should go through in order to become strong, healthy and successful. Try to apply these in your relationship and you will see that things will turn out just right.

1. Infatuation- It might sound a bit mischievous but this is the stage that we all enjoy. It is that stage at which you feel butterflies in your stomach and your heart beats a bit faster each time your phone rings. It is fun, it is exciting and you should submerse in it.

2. Disturbance- This is an unpleasant but very normal stage and we all have to go through it if we want to grow. It is the stage during which you return to your routine and normal life sets back in. it is the stage at which you get annoyed by little, unimportant things such as how your partner chews, for example. This is a learning stage for the both of you, as you have to learn how to accept each other, how not to disturb each other and how to stay kind to one another. It is a stage that will help you tremendously grow as a couple.

3. Changing- This is another stage that every single couple goes through. Sometimes there is only one of the partner who experiences some changes, other times there is one partner who asks the other one to do it. Of course that this brings tension and issues in the relationship and if you manage to make it through, then you’re in a good place with high hopes for a long future together.

4. No lies- A strong, healthy relationship is one that you keep simple and one in which there are no lies involved. Learn to honestly talk about anything, big or small and you’ll experience the positive effects.

5. Have fun together- Serious conversations are important and necessary but it is also important to have fun once in a while. Just the two of you. Be silly, tell jokes and play games; this will help you both be happy. You don’t have to be emotional or romantic all the time. There are other feelings and emotions to experience and having simple, genuine fun is one of them.

Learn to set expectations around these goals and you’ll see your relationship growing up nicely. Keep a steady pace and you will both feel like you are, indeed, growing, not just ticking steps at a speed that doesn’t suit you both. Relationships are about compromises and difficult moments but they are also the ones which will bring you the best memories in life. Learn to handle yours with honesty and sensibility and you’ll get far.